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How to Say I Love You
Although many people use this powerful phrase loosely, there are times when you want to say "I love you" in a meaningful way. Whether you're professing your love to a romantic partner or expressing it to a relative or friend, it can be difficult to convey how much they really mean to you. But by keeping the following suggestions in mind, hopefully your love will not only be understood, but it will also be welcomed and returned.

Steps

1.Define love
The sincerity of the phrase is strengthened by knowing what love is, and what loving someone means to you. Determine the difference between love, infatuation and lust, and make sure it's genuine love that you feel for this person. Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
2. Make it special.
For many people, dropping the "I" allows the sentiment to be expressed casually, such as before separating (e.g. "Time to go. Bye! Love you!"). Using the full phrase, however, can be reserved for more intimate moments, especially during a special event, such as when a child is just born, or even to reassure someone when bad news has been received or during moments of cherished silence, like after a kiss.
3.Make eye contact. If you love this person, hopefully you feel comfortable enough to gaze into their eyes when you express your feelings. Making eye contact shows sincerity and communicates trust.
4. Say it at an appropriate tone.
If you're at home and there's not much background noise, keep your volume low; don't whisper unless you bring your lips to their ear, which can also be a very intimate way to express your love. If you want to tell them how you feel in public, it's up to you whether you want to pull the person aside, or say it in front of friends or even strangers. It depends on your loved one's personality, and your own personality. Some will find it terribly romantic to be told they're loved across a room full of people; others may find it mortifying.
5. Smile.
It can be nerve-wracking to tell someone that you love him or her, only to wait anxiously for their response--especially if it's the first time either of you have verbally expressed love. The best way to overcome this fear is to not expect the phrase in return. Your intention can be to tell the person how you feel, with the hope of making them happy and showing them that they are valued. Remember that unconditional love means not demanding anything in return. So smile, and perhaps give your loved one a hug. If they love you, too, they'll say it in their own way and in their own time.

6.Be creative.
Say it in different languages. Write it into a poem or even a haiku. If you want to be romantic, spell it out with rose petals on his or her bedroom floor. Write it in code, like 1337 or using a Vigènere cipher. Say it in little ways, like post-it notes in unexpected places, and express it in every way you can.

7. Love.
Don't just say it, do it. Love is not just a feeling; it's an action. Saying it without showing it is, in a way, a lie. Express your love in action as well as in words. Children can show love for their parents by cleaning up their room without being asked. A person can send flowers to their partner in the middle of the week for no particular reason other than to show love. Acts of kindness for the one you love, without being asked, speak louder than words. Do things for your loved ones that they are not willing, likely or able to do for themselves.


Tips

* Holding someone's hand as you tell them you love them can also communicate sincerity and trust, but it can also convey a sense of subterfuge, which at a glance may suffice but will quickly be sniffed out by someone with a careful eye for lies; ergo, do not hold hands if you don't mean it.
* Love does not keep score. When you love someone, do not expect anything in return. There's a difference between love and bartering... "I will do this for you if you will do that for me." But always remember if you are asking something of your partner be willing to do it yourself. Don't always expect that he/she understands what you need, be open and willing to express yourself.
* Love is expressed differently by everyone. Be understanding and look for your partner's ways of expressing it to you; they may not be the same as you do or what you want them to do, but in turn you may not be doing the things they want and they should look for your way.
* The way men express their love for their girlfriends/wives is often overlooked. But this can include: opening jars, helping their wife remodel a room, making them furniture, doing outside chores (men generally hate inside chores if it doesn't include power tools), lifting heavy things, going to a sappy movie with them, going to the woman's favorite restaurant, showing affection in public, installing picture frames, killing spiders/mice/snakes, etc.

Warnings

* If love is unrequited, you need to be understanding and be caring towards the feelings of the object of your desire. At least they now know how you feel. It is not good to bottle up your feelings.
* Saying "I love you" in the heat of passion for the first time might not be a good idea, as the person may question the sincerity of your pledge. Follow them up with actions of kindness.
* The words "I love you" can lose their meaning in a relationship if used excessively and loosely, and if not paired with action.
* If you truly love that person then don't hurt her or him in any way whatsoever as it gives a negative impression that you are forcing them to love you.
* It is important to pay attention to the things on this list that enhance the phrase. Our language today is peppered with "love," "hate," etc, when describing things that aren't really deserving. This leads to the word "love" itself meaning less than it should. Remember, you are using simple, over-used words to communicate a very powerful emotion. It is important that other techniques are used to enhance this phrase, or else it merely comes across as trite.

Hari-hari libur nasional dan cuti bersama Tahun 2009

Bagaimana libur dan Cuti bersama 2009? anda harus mulai lihat lihat, agar bisa merencanakan libur dan rekreasi dari sekarang.

LAMPIRAN KEPUTUSAN BERSAMA
MENTERI AGAMA, MENTERI TENAGA KERJA DAN TRANSMIGRASI, DAN MENTERI NEGARA PENDAYAGUNAAN APARATUR NEGARA
REPUBLIK INDONESIA

A. HARI LIBUR TAHUN 2009

No Tanggal Hari Keterangan
1. 1 Januari Kamis Tahun Baru Masehi
2. 26 Januari Senin Tahun Baru Imlek 2560
3. 9 Maret Senin Maulid Nabi Muhammad SAW
4. 26 Maret Kamis Hari Raya Nyepi Tahun Baru Saka 1931
5. 10 April Jum’at Wafat Yesus Kristus
6. 9 Mei Sabtu Hari Raya Waisak Tahun 2553
7. 21 Mei Kamis Kenaikan Yesus Kristus
8. 20 Juli Senin Isra’ Mi’raj Nabi Muhammad SAW
9. 17 Agustus Senin Hari Kemerdekaan RI
10. 21-22 September Senin-Selasa Idul Fitri 1 Syawal 1430 Hijriyah
11. 27 November Jum’at Idul Adha 1430 Hijriyah
12. 18 Desember Jum’at Tahun Baru 1431 Hijriyah
13. 25 Desember Jum’at Hari Raya Natal

B. CUTI BERSAMA TAHUN 2009

Tanggal Hari Keterangan
2 Januari Jum’at Cuti Bersama Tahun Baru Masehi
18 September Jum’at Cuti Bersama Idul Fitri
23 September Rabu Cuti Bersama Idul Fitri
24 Desember Kamis Cuti Bersama Natal
Ditetapkan di : Jakarta
pada tanggal : 9 Juni 2008

Gosip terbaru liga Eropa dan Transfer EPL

Sambil menunggu musim baru, berikut beberapa gosip dan berita singkat liga liga Eropa :

• Investor Amerika siap mengakuisisi Newcastle.
• Middlesbrough merekrut pemain Belanda , Marvin Emnes, 3.2 juta pounds
• Kepergian Barry ke Liverpool menunggu waktu.
• Benitez telah membuat penawaran kelima untuk Gareth Barry. Rasanya tinggal waktu saja..
• Pemain sayap Australia , Harry Kewell bergabung dengan klub Turki, Galatasaray. Pemain nasional Australia ini menandatangani 3 tahun kontrak bersama Galatasaray
• Striker Andwele Slory merasa terancam dengan kedatangan Jon Dahl Tomasson.
• Peluang Ronaldinho 80-90 untuk bergabung dengan Milan.
• Striker Recreativo , Sinama Pongolle pindah ke Atletico Madrid
• Aragones Berjanji memberikan gelar kepada klub asuhan barunya : Fenerbache

Data kepindahan pemain di EPL (s/d 4 JUli 2008 ) - ambil dari Soccernet.com :

3 Juli 2008
Pemain	Klub Asal	Ke	Harga
Gianni Zuiverloon	Heerenveen	West Bromwich Albion	£3,200,000
Darryl Duffy	Swansea City	Bristol Rovers	£100,000
Curtis Davies	West Bromwich Albion	Aston Villa	Undisclosed
Johannes Ertl	Austria Vienna	Crystal Palace	Undisclosed
Nadjim Abdou	Free	Plymouth Argyle	Free
Darryl Flahavan	Free	Crystal Palace	Free
Ben Hunt	West Ham United	Bristol Rovers	Free
David Livermore	Free	Brighton & Hove Albion	Free
Dwayne Mattis	Free	Walsall	Free
Mark McCammon	Free	Gillingham	Free
Darren Moore	Derby County	Barnsley	Free
Efetobore Sodje	Free	Bury	Free

2 Juli 2008
Craig Fagan	Derby County	Hull City	£750,000
Andreas Isaksson	Manchester City	PSV Eindhoven	Undisclosed
Anthony Le Tallec	Liverpool	Le Mans	Undisclosed
Joao Alves de Assis Silva	CSKA Moscow	Manchester City	Undisclosed
Andy Butler	Free	Huddersfield Town	Free
Leon Constantine	Leeds United	Northampton Town	Free
Jabo Ibehre	Free	Walsall	Free
Sun Jihai	Free	Sheffield United	Free
Paul Reid	Free	Colchester United	Free
Simon Dawkins	Tottenham Hotspur	Leyton Orient	Loan
Samuel Di Carmine	Fiorentina	Queens Park Rangers	Loan
Greg Halford	Sunderland	Sheffield United	Loan

1 Juli 2008
John Arne Riise	Liverpool	AS Roma	£4,000,000
Nick Carle	Bristol City	Crystal Palace	£1,000,000
Liam Dickinson	Stockport County	Derby County	£1,000,000
Jason Puncheon	Barnet	Plymouth Argyle	£250,000
Calvin Zola	Tranmere Rovers	Crewe Alexandra	£200,000
Albert Serran	Espanyol	Swansea City	£80,000
Julius Aghahowa	Wigan Athletic	Kayserispor	Undisclosed
Alex Baptiste	Mansfield Town	Blackpool	Undisclosed
Luka Modric	Dinamo Zagreb	Tottenham Hotspur	Undisclosed
Michael Morrison	Cambridge United	Leicester City	Undisclosed
Guy Moussi	SCO Angers	Nottingham Forest	Undisclosed
Paul-Jose Mpoku	Standard Liege	Tottenham Hotspur	Undisclosed
Nicky Adams	Bury	Leicester City	Tribunal
Steve Davies	Tranmere Rovers	Derby County	Tribunal
Stuart Fleetwood	Forest Green Rovers	Charlton Athletic	Tribunal
Janos Kovacs	Chesterfield	Lincoln City	Tribunal
Alan Sheehan	Leicester City	Leeds United	Tribunal
Dale Stephens	Bury	Oldham Athletic	Tribunal
Martin Albrechtsen	West Bromwich Albion	Derby County	Bosman
Cedric Baseya	Southampton	Lille	Bosman
Garry Breen	Manchester City	Hereford United	Bosman
Tom Brighton	Millwall	St Mirren	Bosman
Joe Burnell	Northampton Town	Oxford United	Bosman
Andrew Cave-Brown	Norwich City	Leyton Orient	Bosman
Steve Collis	Southend United	Crewe Alexandra	Bosman
Paul Connolly	Plymouth Argyle	Derby County	Bosman
Stephen Dawson	Mansfield Town	Bury	Bosman
Philipp Degen	Borussia Dortmund	Liverpool	Bosman
Darren Dennehy	Everton	Cardiff City	Bosman
Daniel de Ridder	Birmingham City	Wigan Athletic	Bosman
Aidan Downes	Everton	Yeovil Town	Bosman
Lloyd Dyer	Milton Keynes Dons	Leicester City	Bosman
Mathieu Flamini	Arsenal	AC Milan	Bosman
Jamie Forrester	Lincoln City	Notts County	Bosman
Mikael Forssell	Birmingham City	Hannover 96	Bosman
Adam Griffin	Stockport County	Darlington	Bosman
Ashley Grimes	Manchester City	Millwall	Bosman
Russell Hoult	Stoke City	Notts County	Bosman
Jamie Jones	Everton	Leyton Orient	Bosman
Jens Lehmann	Arsenal	Vfb Stuttgart	Bosman
Peter Leven	Chesterfield	Milton Keynes Dons	Bosman
Russell Martin	Wycombe Wanderers	Peterborough United	Bosman
Ross McCormack	Motherwell	Cardiff City	Bosman
Kevin McLeod	Colchester United	Brighton & Hove Albion	Bosman
Olof Mellberg	Aston Villa	Juventus	Bosman
Adam Newton	Peterborough United	Brentford	Bosman
Barry Nicholson	Aberdeen	Preston North End	Bosman
Stefan Oakes	Lincoln City	Wycombe Wanderers	Bosman
Jack Obersteller	Wycombe Wanderers	Exeter City	Bosman
Burton O'Brien	Sheffield Wednesday	Falkirk	Bosman
James O'Connor	Burnley	Sheffield Wednesday	Bosman
David Poole	Stockport County	Darlington	Bosman
Robert Page	Huddersfield	Chesterfield	Bosman
Stephen Roberts	Doncaster Rovers	Walsall	Bosman
Andy Robinson	Swansea City	Leeds United	Bosman
Barry Roche	Chesterfield	Morecambe	Bosman
Danny Schofield	Huddersfield Town	Yeovil Town	Bosman
Frank Sinclair	Huddersfield Town	Lincoln City	Bosman
Sam Stockley	Wycombe Wanderers	Port Vale	Bosman
Ruben Zadkovich	Free	Derby County	Loan
Paul Anderson	Liverpool	Nottingham Forest	Loan
Ban Sahar	Chelsea	Portsmouth	Loan
Jimmy Smith	Chelsea	Sheffield Wednesday	Loan

29 Juni 2008
Deco	Barcelona	Chelsea	Undisclosed
Aaron Brown	Gillingham	Lincoln City	Free
Rob Burch	Sheffield Wednesday	Lincoln City	Free
David Graham	Free	Lincoln City	Free
Burton O'Brien	Sheffield Wednesday	Falkirk	Free
Graeme Lee	Doncaster Rovers	Bradford City	Free
Diarmuid O'Carroll	Celtic	Morecambe	Free
Ciaran Toner	Grimsby Town	Rochdale	Free
Magno Vieira	Crawley Town	Wycombe Wanderers	Free
Adam Virgo	Celtic	Brighton & Hove Albion	Free

Saturday, June 28, 2008
Federico Bessone	Espanyol	Swansea City	Free
Clayton Fortune	Leyton Orient	Darlington	Free
Shane Sherriff	Tranmere Rovers	Shrewsbury Town	Free

27 juni, 2008
David Jones	Derby County	Wolverhampton Wanderers	£1,000,000
Hugh Roberto Colace	Newell's Old Boys	Barnsley	Undisclosed
Mounir El Haimour	NE Xamax	Barnsley	Undisclosed
Johan Elmander	Toulouse	Bolton Wanderers	Undisclosed
Gavin Williams	Ipswich Town	Bristol City	Undisclosed
Marvin Williams	Yeovil Town	Brentford	Undisclosed
Mark Gower	Southend United	Swansea City	Free
Matt Hamshaw	Mansfield Town	Notts County	Free
Neil Harvey	Retford United	Macclesfield Town	Free
Emmanuel Jorge Ledesema	Genoa	Queens Park Rangers	Loan

26 Juni 2008
Wes Hoolahan	Blackpool	Norwich City	Undisclosed
Matthew Gilks	Norwich City	Blackpool	Undisclosed
Carlos Bocanegra	Fulham	Stade Rennes	Free
Jay Harris	Accrington Stanley	Chester City	Free
Christian Kalvenes	Dundee United	Burnley	Free
David Mannix	Accrington Stanley	Chester City	Free

25 Juni 2008
Iain Hume	Leicester City	Barnsley	£1,200,000
Joel Grant	Aldershot	Crewe Alexandra	£130,000
Richard Stearman	Leicester City	Wolverhampton Wanderers	Undisclosed
Matt Heywood	Brentford	Grimsby Town	Free
Richard Hope	Wrexham	Grimsby Town	Free
Ryan Jarvis	Norwich City	Leyton Orient	Free
Daniel McBreen	Scunthorpe United	York City	Free
Adam Nowland	Preston North End	Notts County	Free
Alex Rhodes	Bradford City	Rotherham United	Free
Ben Williams	Crewe Alexandra	Carlisle United	Free

24 Juni 2008
Martin Paterson	Scunthorpe United	Burnley	£1,000,000
Kevin McDonald	Dundee	Burnley	£500,000
Grant Holt	Nottingham Forest	Shrewsbury Town	£170,000
Karl Duguid	Colchester United	Plymouth Argyle	Undisclosed
Diego Penny	Coronel Bolognesi	Burnley	Undisclosed
Paul Furlong	Luton Town	Southend United	Free
Michael Jackson	Blackpool	Shrewsbury Town	Free

23 Juni 2008
Sean Hessey	Chester City	Macclesfield Town	Free
Ryan McCann	Queen of the South	Morecambe	Free
Andy Parrish	Bury	Morecambe	Free
Osei Sankofa	Charlton Athletic	Southend United	Free
Sam Sloma	Dagenham & Redbridge	Grays Athletic	Free

20 Juni 2008
Player	From	To	Fee
Chris Zebroski	Millwall	Wycombe Wanderers	£20,000
Stefan Bailey	Queens Park Rangers	Grays Athletic	Free
Glen Little	Reading	Portsmouth	Free
Craig Stone	Gillingham	Ebbsfleet United	Free
Danny Whitaker	Port Vale	Oldham Athletic	Free
Darius Charles	Brentford	Ebbsfleet United	Loan

Wednesday, June 18, 2008
Player	From	To	Fee
Kyle Lafferty	Burnley	Glasgow Rangers	£3,000,000
Kieran Westwood	Carlisle United	Coventry City	£500,000
Gareth McAuley	Leicester City	Ipswich Town	Undisclosed
Johnny Mullins	Mansfield Town	Stockport County	Undisclosed
Paul Arnison	Carlisle United	Bradford City	Free
Neil Wainwright	Darlington	Morecambe	Free
Shaun Whalley	Accrington Stanley	Wrexham	Free
Paul Wotton	Plymouth Argyle	Southampton	Free

17 Juni 2008
Player	From	To	Fee
Matt Done	Wrexham	Hereford United	Undisclosed
Aron Gunnarsson	AZ Alkmaar	Coventry City	Undisclosed
Sammy Clingan	Nottingham Forest	Norwich City	Free
John Mousinho	Brentford	Wycombe Wanderers	Free
Colin Murdock	Shrewsbury Town	Accrington Stanley	Free
Alex Russell	Bristol City	Cheltenham Town	Free
Lewwis Spence	Crystal Palace	Wycombe Wanderers	Free
John Spicer	Burnley	Doncaster Rovers	Free
Robbie Stockdale	Tranmere Rovers	Grimsby Town	Free
Ben Hamer	Reading	Brentford	Loan
Leigh Mills	Tottenham Hotspur	Brentford	Loan

16 Juni 2008

Player	From	To	Fee
Fabrice Muamba	Birmingham City	Bolton Wanderers	£5,000,000
Zoltan Liptak	Southend United	Ujpest FC	£60,000
Pim Balkestein	Heerenveen	Ipswich Town	Undisclosed

13 Juni 2008
Player	From	To	Fee
Kenny Miller	Derby County	Rangers	£1,900,000
Aaron Ramsey	Cardiff City	Arsenal	Undisclosed

12 Juni 2008

Player	From	To	Fee
Paddy McCarthy	Charlton Athletic	Crystal Palace	Undisclosed
Lee Hodges	Plymouth Argyle	Torquay United	Free
Abdul Osman	Free	Northampton Town	Free
Andranik Teymourian	Bolton Wanderers	Fulham	Free

11 Juni 2008

Player	From	To	Fee
Mark Burchill	Dunfermline Athletic	Rotherham United	Free
Zoltan Gera	West Bromwich Albion	Fulham	Free

10 Juni 2008
Player	From	To	Fee
Giovani Dos Santos	Barcelona	Tottenham Hotspur	£4,700,000
David Rozehnal	Newcastle United	Lazio	£2,900,000
Gareth Edds	Milton Keynes Dons	Tranmere Rovers	Free

9 Juni 2008

2008
Player	From	To	Fee
Kevin Amankwaah	Swansea City	Swindon Town	Free
Adam Legzdins	Birmingham City	Crewe Alexandra	Free

6 Juni 2008
Player	From	To	Fee
Jeff Hughes	Crystal Palace	Bristol Rovers	Unidsclosed
Wayne Brown	Hereford United	Bury	Free
Liam Davis	Coventry City	Northampton Town	Free
Lee Holmes	Derby County	Southampton	Free
Steve Mildenhall	Yeovil Town	Southend United	Free
Chris Perry	Luton Town	Southampton	Free

5 Juni 2008
Player	From	To	Fee
Kevin Austin	Swansea City	Chesterfield	Free
David Forde	Cardiff City	Millwall	Free
Jim Goodwin	Scunthorpe United	Huddersfield Town	Free
Danny Granville	Colchester United	Leyton Orient	Free
Alan Power	Nottingham Forest	Hartlepool United	Free

4 Juni 2008
Player	From	To	Fee
Roman Bednar	Heart of Midlothian	West Bromwich Albion	£2,300,000
David Stockdale	Darlington	Fulham	Undisclosed
Marlon Broomes	Stoke City	Blackpool	Free
Lloyd Kerry	Sheffield United	Chesterfield	Free

3 Juni 2008
Player	From	To	Fee
Matt Lockwood	Nottingham Forest	Colchester United	Undisclosed

2 Juni 2008
Player	From	To	Fee
Guillaume Beuzelin	Hibernian	Coventry City	Free
Kris Commons	Nottingham Forest	Derby County	Free

1 Juni 2008

Player	From	To	Fee
Do-Heon Kim	Seongnam Ilhwa Chunma	West Bromwich Albion	£550,000
Kris Commons	Nottingham Forest	Derby County	Free